tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post5002026736531946226..comments2023-11-03T03:21:58.873-07:00Comments on thoughts of a sober white women: yesterday was Rusty's birthdaysober white womenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15538349921465953554noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-43484845950857783122007-12-21T08:50:00.000-08:002007-12-21T08:50:00.000-08:00I was going to say Happy Birthday to Rusty but may...I was going to say Happy Birthday to Rusty but maybe that is not what he feels right now with losing your house. Hope things work out for you in the long run. Maybe you will end up with something you like much better. Good luck to you both, PaulaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-30194201305834271892007-12-21T09:54:00.000-08:002007-12-21T09:54:00.000-08:00(((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))))I hope t...(((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))))I hope that Rusy has a nice Birthday.Things maybe tough right now for the both of you.But what matters is what you have right in front of you.Your family.God will see it that somehting good will come out of this.I pray it will.you are both very strong.Stay posative onn the good things in life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-30077350975159798432007-12-21T10:26:00.000-08:002007-12-21T10:26:00.000-08:00Oh hon! Whether you are at peace about it or not,...Oh hon! Whether you are at peace about it or not, it is a huge change to go through. I am so sorry. Our house is the reason we are having such a small Christmas. We were in default and are on a repayment plan. The problem here is that our mortgage payment is much cheaper than rent. I am sorry you are losing your house. <br>Prayers and blessings,<br>TraciAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-88336295486629612152007-12-21T10:58:00.000-08:002007-12-21T10:58:00.000-08:00Happy Birthday Rusty and I am so sorry about your ...Happy Birthday Rusty and I am so sorry about your situation. I hope you find somewhere nice to rent .Merry christmas to you all and best wishes from all of us here louise xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-55456819147380759412007-12-21T12:28:00.000-08:002007-12-21T12:28:00.000-08:00Happy birthday to Rusty!I'm sorry about what you a...Happy birthday to Rusty!<br>I'm sorry about what you are having to deal with. You're right about your situation, as long as you are together, have a roof over your heads and food on the table -- those are the most important things.<br>Hugs, MarthaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-13466910826275422042007-12-21T14:11:00.000-08:002007-12-21T14:11:00.000-08:00I lost a house in 1993! We lived in a Hellhole whe...I lost a house in 1993! We lived in a Hellhole where there was no work. We couldn't sell the house and break even, and we couldn't rent the house out for the amount of the mortgage. So, we had to give it back and move to where there was work. We did a "Deed in lieu of forclosure" and just signed it back. <br>It was a very emotional time and it took me awhile to come to peace with it. Pretty soon, I realized that my "Home" was anywhere that my family was. The "house" was just wood and glass....that's all. <br>So on moving day...after the truck was loaded and everything was gone....my ex hubby and I had sex in each room and said "goodbye" to the house! LOL!<br>It'll be ok...really it will!<br>PamAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-26135672412956483072007-12-21T19:37:00.000-08:002007-12-21T19:37:00.000-08:00Happy Birthday to Rusty, sorry about your situatio...Happy Birthday to Rusty, sorry about your situation, Many Hugs LisaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-2529071611365764272007-12-21T22:04:00.000-08:002007-12-21T22:04:00.000-08:00Well I kinda know what you mean about loosing your...Well I kinda know what you mean about loosing your house because of divorce I will be leaving this house in October or November 2008, but I look at it positive and hope to move on. I would love to rent somewhere and not be responsible for taking care of all the fix ups. I'm use to having a husband to do all that stuff. You will all still be together so that's all that matters. A new beginning without the stress will be a load off your shoulders.<br>Take care, Chrissie<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-51704020017190304562007-12-22T07:47:00.000-08:002007-12-22T07:47:00.000-08:00Im sending you love and the very best hopes for yo...Im sending you love and the very best hopes for you to find a lovely new house to keep you warm for the next few years hun,have a good Christmas and a bright new year,love zoe xxxxxxxxxxxx<br>http://journals.aol.co.uk/zoepaul6968/domestic-chaos/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-21139492693047369572007-12-22T21:17:00.000-08:002007-12-22T21:17:00.000-08:00Dear Kelli,Thanks for commenting in my journal!Iam...Dear Kelli,<br>Thanks for commenting in my journal!Iam crushed that you are going to be moving!I am impressed totally with your attitude!Have a Merry Christmas and please consider hosting my blog a few times. You can mention things that are important to you and you can leave a link to your journal here.<br>Meanwhile, Happy Holidays my dear friend. I will hope that everything goes very well and happily for you and your family.<br>love,natalieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-38937457538333791832007-12-22T21:18:00.000-08:002007-12-22T21:18:00.000-08:00Happy Belated Birthday to Rusty!love,natalieHappy Belated Birthday to Rusty!<br>love,natalieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-41786437630505064672007-12-26T09:32:00.000-08:002007-12-26T09:32:00.000-08:00I have never heard of root beer glass candy. It s...I have never heard of root beer glass candy. It sounds like a joke but it must be real. One thing I like about renting as not all the big expenses become yours. I do hope things work out for you and you find a nice enough place to live to take you through the next 3 years. What state does Rusty want to move to? And I hope Amber's Puerto Rica trip comes off okay. GerryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-18024119562265180012007-12-27T14:04:00.000-08:002007-12-27T14:04:00.000-08:00This is so tragic. I am truly sorry for what all ...This is so tragic. I am truly sorry for what all you have been through and all that is to come. My deepest condolences and support for all the tough decisions you have had to make.<br><br>I have NO IDEA what root beer glass candy is. Would you explain? So many times I've had to delete journal alerts and start over I'd gotten so far behind. Your REAL friends will follow you even if you don't have time to comment. I have found that petty behavior in J-Land that exists that says if you don't comment in mine, I'm not coming over to comment in yours. Not me. If I like you, I like you. ANd people have lives. They're not hovering over the computer waiting for my journal entry to pop into their inbox. lol I visit the people I like regardless because SOMETIMES things happen. It's called LIFE where I live. Do what you have to do my friend and take care of you,<br><br>NELISHIA<br>http://journals.aol.com/nelishianatl/PrayingandBelieving/<br>http://journals.aol.com/nelishianatl/Crocheted-Creations/<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1066131320029765111.post-36362288946233192572008-01-02T18:34:00.000-08:002008-01-02T18:34:00.000-08:00I'm really sorry about the house, but I am so ...I'm really sorry about the house, but I am so glad that you have come to some kind of peace. We've had some rough times and come close to having this happen to us in the past. The way things are these days it just doesn't take much -- an illness, an accident -- and it's just really hard to recover lost ground.<br>Lori<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com