Thursday, October 18, 2007


My morning started off great! A friend came over and we sat around drinking coffee for several hours. It was so nice to just sit and talk. I know you guys can't believe that I have friends that don't live in my computer.

Then I went to get some liquid crack. While I was getting that my old boss called and asked me if I wanted to come work at his house. So i jumped at the opportunity to work. My boss is going to call me and let me know if this is going to be a regular thing. I use to go into the office and work, but some bitch slipped speed into my coffee and my boss works in the ghetto. Rusty put his foot down and said no more unless I work from his home. Anyway I am hoping for some more hours.

I have been getting phone calls from other mom's concerning this damn homecoming dance tomorrow night. Let me rewind a little. Nikki was told that if she wanted to go to homecoming with her boyfriend that the boyfriend needed to come over and ask Rusty. So this kid did and Rusty told him that he better have her home by 11 or he will never take Nikki any where.

So, Nikki's friend is dating one of boyfriends brother. So nikki's friend mom called me and wanted to know if Nikki could go out for pie and hot chocolate after the dance. I told her that Chris (Nikkis boyfriend)would have to talk to Rusty.

Then the boyfriends mom calls me. Now keep in mind that this is the same lady that told my daughter to watch her back! So she invites Rusty and I to go out for pie and hot chocolate after the dance, so we can talk to the about the dance. She also said that she would like to get to me.

I told her that I most likely would not going since Amber will be out with Sam and Rusty is working out of town this weekend. I told her that I would have no one to keep Ryan. So she says well just bring him. I told her no and that was not a good idea. She said that she understood about not wanting a little one out late. I told her that I can't just change Ryans schedule. Then she said well you should really get out more and that it sad that I am controlled by Ryans life.

I am so glad that I have semi learned to hold my tongue. So I will vent here.

Listen here lady, if you want to get to know me then bring me over some doughnuts and I will put the coffee on. If you wanted to get to know me then why didn't you invite me to the friendship dinner at the church. If you want to get to me then why don't you get off your ass and make an effort. I personally do not want to get to know you. I do not like your son. He is not good enough for my daughter and I think he is a candy ass that needs to grow some balls.

I am use to not being able to do things because of our son. It is a part of my life. Yes, sometimes it gets me down but that is my reality. Don't you dare stand there and say that you understand when you have no idea what my life is like. You do not know what it is like to have a mentally retard autistic child! So lady you can goback to where ever you came from.

As for talking to the children about the dance, well I talk to my child all the time and I do not need a special time to do it. I do not care to share my feelings with you.

Oh I feel so much better. Since Rusty will be out of town most of th weekend i am going to cook some real simple easy meals. Nothing like saving money when I can.

Tomorrow morning I am going to run out to 29 palms and get George. I know that we will have a blast this weekend. I just love sitting around talking with her.

Anyway, I better go start dinner. I think the children are going to want to eat at some point tonight.



lanurseprn said...

Good for you!
Love the graphic!

lattedah711 said...

Graphics are perfect!  :)     Tracy

lisa41076 said...

Kelli, love your graphics, I need to try that liquid crack you talk about so often, Hugs Lisa

plieck30 said...

Well guess you told her. I like your attitude about Ryan and I know it is hard sometime. Paula

nay0114 said...

Hope the homecoming goes well. Take pictures I wanna see too. Hope you and your friend have a great time.
Take care, Chrissie

deshelestraci said...

Good for you for holding your tongue.  And then come here and vent!  No, no one understands what you go through with your son.  Blessings.

nelishianatl said...

She has more than a lot of nerve, she's just ignorant.  Very ignorant.  You have more class than she can ever understand.  I hope you get to work over there and get some hours too.  


magran42 said...

I love both the graphics.  They are great!  It might be a little prickly but sometimes I just want to give you a  hug.  (I'm the grandmotherly type)   Since I can't ....I'll just say....YOU DONE GOOD...MAMM!   rave on!

hugsdoodlewacky said...

((((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))))))You are right,if She wanted to make an effort,She should of done long time ago.And to tell you,you need to get out more and saying its because of Ryan.How you know they had me take tests bakc in school and said I was mentaly retarted.I have learned and grown up so much and still learning.Its a slow learning process for me at things.Like money and like baking in my dapartment.I am slow,very slow at learning things,You know what my MOm said,when they wanted to send me to a special scool,they said,what do you want me to do,lock Her in a cage and feed Her bread and water.Thats wha my Mom said.You do what your heart tells you to do and dont let people step on your back and I know you dont.Have a nice day.

amyrangei said...

That lady sounds like such a bitch!!!  I hate when people who have NO idea about what you go through try to say, "Well, if you only do this, then your life would be better".  

helmswondermom said...

I hope that job works out for you.

seraphoflove9001 said...

You go girl! No, that woman doesn't have a clue! From the sound of it, she sounds like a total bitch! And good idea, getting George...she really seems to cheer you up! :o)

zoepaul6968 said...

go girl go girl well said i couldnt have said it better myself,pie and hot chocolate? it should be humble pie and grovelling champagne deary,mwahhs my little rebel rouser,xx zoexx

lurkynat said...

aww! I'm so sorry that that woman spoke out fo turn Kelli and that she had no idea what she was going on about! really! sorry!
I have a very high maintenance kid and I really have learned alot about autistic children in reading your blog , Hadonfield's blog Dawn's blog and some others here.
My daughter's favorite prof had a gifted autistic kid who could not throw a ball when he was around eight. They taught him to do it.
He was so advanced mentally that as a teenager he is writing entire musical scores for new musicals. Be well.

gehi6 said...

Sounds like that lady was short on nice.  Seems like too many in this world are, especially the hotheads of the world   Well go ahead and vent.  I need to vent too but can't do it on line as they read that.  Ha.   Gerry

sunnyside46 said...

way to go!