Tuesday, August 12, 2008

what I do and don't know

Last night I had to run a few errands. So I asked Rusty to go with me and I told him that I would buy him some ice cream.

Nikki called me to ask if Chris..... the boyfriend could come over. I said fine.

Then Nikki calls me back and say's "Chris can't come over because we are having sex."

I said "Then stop having sex." It was at that point that we pulled into the driveway.

It seem that the mother from hell won't let Chris come over because she thinks Nikki and Chris are having sex.

Well let me get this straight.

Nikki holds her virginity very close to her. She makes it very clear that she will not have sex before marriage. Nikki even wears a shirt that says virginity rocks. And you think my daughter is having sex?

Then I was wondering what the hell. O.K. lets face it. We can't stop our children from having sex. Oh wait it was the mother from hell that admits to having sex before marriage. So just because she did, she thinks my daughter is putting out?

Oh my brain hurts.

  So I called Ryan's school today. I needed to know what classroom he was going to be in and if they had a teacher for him.

Silly me. What was I thinking? I actually expected the school to know these things. No they do not know! I guess Ryan is just going to wonder around until someone finds him and tells him where to go.

I also had this strange notion that I might be able to find out what time Ryan's bus is coming. Oh no! That would also be way to easy. So I guess tomorrow I am just going to send this child out the door with no set schedule, no class room and no teacher?

After the day I have had him......

I did find out that o.t. is finally going to be giving him services. The o.t. person told me that Ryan is at the age of a six year old. She also gave me a long list of other things. I was sitting on the other side of the phone thinking. You are preaching to the choir! I have been bitching about this for years. I know that he is 13 and is only doing stuff that a 6 old does!

oh my brain hurts.

  So far today I don't think I have gotten much done. I had to sweep and mop the laundry room floor. I took care of the babies. Oh that is right. I need to get some pictures of them.

I tried to clean up the kitchen but that was pointless. I guess trying to clean anything is pointless when you have three teenagers in the house.

Oh my brain hurts.


momiscool2 said...

lol I think I need one or 10 of those pills

That is insane about Ryan's school.

I don't blame you for being ticked off!


hugsdoodlewacky said...

(((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU))))))))))))))))Seems like you had a frustating day,I hope tommrow is a better day.

deshelestraci said...

My brain hurts and I'm only reading about it!!!!  Blessings to you!  And the school just needs to get some brains!

lv2trnscrb said...

and it all begins tomorrow with the new school year!!! that's awful that you didn't get a bus schedule for when Ryan would be picked up; poor kid (you and him)

I have to laugh about Nikki/boyfriend; us moms are funny what we think our kids are up to

so did you get your ice cream after all that??


helmswondermom said...

You've had two horrible days!  I hope tomorrow goes smoothly.  At least Ryan is getting O.T., and I hope the therapist knows what she is doing and can work well with you.  You take care!

plieck30 said...

Awww you need more then ice cream but it may fix Rusty. lol Paula

nelishianatl said...

I went through the same kind of stress last week at open house for Katie.  Stressed me until I thought my brain was going to leak out.  Stayed awake all night worrying over it.  Followed the bus, sat with her til she got on the secong bus even though there was a teacher's assistant there to do that. Just plain ridiculous.

I think that Nikki's BF's mother needs to mind her own business.  Everyone's not alike.  How could she even think that after meeting Nikki even once.  

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lisa41076 said...

Awwwwwwww sorry everyone at Ryan's school is so clueless, Hope today is better, Hugs Lisa

oquinn2004 said...

Love you graphics they made me laugh....dont stress too much I know its hard not to get frustrated over stupid people trust me I know oh so well.  But their stupidity is not worth it....really!!


lurkynat said...

good grief!
that was sooo nasty ! oh good grief!
she should not say those things!
I agree totally!
and how come they don't know more about Ryan's situation! I am steaming too Kelli! sheesh!

springangel235 said...

So sorry about all of what iwas going on...hope the week ahead will be so much better for all...hugs and love,

gehi6 said...

I had to smile a little at the thought of you sending Ryan out the door with no designated class, teacher or destination.  Maybe someone will find him and say here is your school, maybe like his guardian angel.  I have read quite a lot of books by parents of kids like Ryan and I think some of them are regular saints. This is such a challenge.  I used to think about my little Uncle Bill a lot.  He had another little buddy who was almost as handicapped as he was, and I was so glad they found each other but Ben got killed in a hunting accident when he was in his teens.  But before that a team of horses he was driving ran away and I passed them running, driving some cattle, with Ben clinging to the wagon.  I feared I was seeing his death happen right in front of my eyes and turned my horse around and chased after the runaway tem, but I just got up to them not knwing what I waas going to do and the wagon broke in two and Ben landed safely, as the broken wagon forced the team to slow down and stop.  I was glad I did not have to try to attempt any kind of intervention as since I was not very experienced that waas high risk, too  They do it in the movies, but in real life, another story.  Ben escaped death then but not a few months later.  Gerry