These are our girls. On the left is Nikki and she is the one who wants to be a missionary.
On the right is Amber and this entry is about her.
Yesterday I got a call back from the back district attorneys office.
No they will not extend her child support and insurance past 18.
Yes I can take my ex back to court and try to get the order on my own, and they would enforce the order.
However in order to take my ex back to court I would have to find him in order to serve him.
I run the chance of the judge telling us no or he could lower our support.
I run the change of my ex actually showing up in court. If this man does show up in court I will once again have to face a convicted abuser. I will have to put the children in hiding.
I know that Rusty and some of the other marines would go to court with me, and that I would be safe from him.
Rusty and I talked about all of our options. We have decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Rusty has always said that the girls would know who their true dad was because is the one that supports them and is there for them.
When Amber turns 18 (June 1) she is going to ask for a buy out on her child support. That means that any back support that is owed to her will go straight to her and not to me.
It also means that Amber will have no insurance. Amber can't get public aid because she is not pregnant, homeless or in rehab. We will figure something out.
For what ever reason, Nikki's support also goes down when Amber turns 18. Nikki will be getting a whole $30 a week for child support. What the heck am I suppose to do with $30 a week?
Well my day is calling me.