My question: cuz I'm nosey, Why does your mom favor your sister over you? Is that one over the top? Too nosey? I am scared to hit send.
O.K. trac you asked so grab a drink and let me tell you a story.
My sister had always thought that she was adopted, but she had no proof.
When I was in high school I had found a series of stuff that did not make sense to me but I just tucked everything into the back of my mind and left it there.
I took Amber back to Chicago when she was about 6 weeks old. This was the first time my family had ever seen her. So everyone was over.
Out of the blue my sister says to me I wish I knew who my father was.
I just gave her that smile. A smile that says I know something that you don't.
When we were alone my sister finally asked me what I knew. So I told her. I said " have you ever checked your bumper book? If you look at the inscription that nana Mcmahan wrote on it, it says on your first Christmas with us. Look at my birth certificate. Under mothers name it says Hann not young. Go look in the bottom drawer of moms dresser. There is a blue clutch purse with a telegram in it and it says congratulations on your marriage....Don Hann."
I swear I could see smoke because now her wheels are turning.
Over the next year she damn near beet one of our grandmother up to find out who Don Hann was. Then she got into a fist fight with our dad over going to meet Don Hann. My sister even went to court to see if she could get the adoption records unsealed. The judge told her no.
Finally she went and met this guy. My sister said that is was very strange and that she would not see him again.
Fast forward a few years and I am going through a nasty custody divorce. I asked my mom if she had any of these issues when she divorced Don. My mom slipped up and said that Don was not my sisters father, so they did not have these issues.
I have tucked that information into the back of my mind and i will release the information when my mom dies. That way there will be no one left living that could help my sister.
My mother once told me that the only reason she gave birth to me is because my father wanted a child.
I believe that my mom treats me like shit out of guilt over my sister and the fact that she never really wanted me.
Since before I was born my mom and dad set out to keep this secret. Who is my sisters real dad?
I do not know who he is and I do not care. My father was good to her.
I do know that my mothers web of lies almost got untangled when I started talking about all I did know.
My mother has always treated my sister better and I think it was to try to make her think that everything was great.
If you were not reading my journal last year you should check out this entry. I know that are a lot of mistakes in this entry..... I was so pissed off when I wrote it! LOL
On to another subject. Nikki and Amber had to go up to the school this morning. Amber is registered for school and Nikki will register on Friday.
I now have to go find some softball cleats so that Nikki can try out for softball tomorrow.
I will get to more questions tomorrow!