Thursday, May 31, 2007

going to court

I just called the company that my ex use to work for. I was calling to see if the insurance was still good. Well it is not. He is no longer working there.

I called the district attorney's office. They do not have any information on his new employer or if he is carrying medical insurance on the children.

So I asked if I could go back and change my support order. Amber will be 18 next year and she will loose all of her child support and insurance. Not that he pays it anyway, but with the order we can tack everything on to what he owes.

So now I need to call my lawyer and take my ex back to court. I want him to carry insurance on Amber as long as she is in school, and to pay for her college text books. I do not think that is being to unfair.

However that means that I have to take him back to court. Which means he will have to be served. Which means he could actually show up here for court.

I will need to be strong and have a lot of body guards. My ex has tried to hurt me, and has tried to kidnapped the children.

I will try to be strong and I will make it because I know that Rusty will be there to hold me up when I want to give up.

The girls will not be allowed to see their grandmother this summer. Since I do not know where my ex is and I cannot guarantee their safety, they will not be visiting my former mother in law. I will not take a chance of them not coming back or of him hurting them.

One thing I do know for sure is that all of the marines will be to pull body guard duty!


lisa41076 said...

Kelli, I am sorry you have to be in this position, I will keep you in my prayers , Hugs Lisa

cgtperkins said...

X husbands can be so sorry!!! I have one that I just cant stand!
Good Luck

hugsdoodlewacky said...

(((((((((((((((((((HUGSTOYOU)))))))))))))))))))I am sorry you have to go to court,but your doing the right thing and no its not to much to ask for Help for oyur Daughter while in School or college.You have the support from your loving Husband,your Marines and your J-landers.Have a ncie weekend.

plieck30 said...

My youngest has been all through this and my heart bled for her as it is for you. Recently she and I went to a visitation for his mother when she died and they were so civil to each other I thought why couldn't you two have done that when you were married. Paula

amyrangei said...

I hate going to court.  I would rather have surgery than face the ex.  I wish you tons of luck.

seraphoflove9001 said...

Yes...I know you and the girls will be guarded and safe! With all of your friends and Rusty. They won't let anything happen to you. But it sound like this snake needs to pay up! Hugs to you!

deshelestraci said...

That sounds like a pretty scary situation.  But I think you will have help.

nana0014 said...

Good luck going to court. Sorry your X is a crazy person. It must be awful to think he would hurt his own children.
Take care, Chrissie

gehi6 said...

I did not realize your ex was such a violent person.  I am glad you have got help from the military to protect you and them.  I don't think it is a good idea to let them go visit his mother, as she may not believe what he is capable of.   Gerry