I just called the company that my ex use to work for. I was calling to see if the insurance was still good. Well it is not. He is no longer working there.
I called the district attorney's office. They do not have any information on his new employer or if he is carrying medical insurance on the children.
So I asked if I could go back and change my support order. Amber will be 18 next year and she will loose all of her child support and insurance. Not that he pays it anyway, but with the order we can tack everything on to what he owes.
So now I need to call my lawyer and take my ex back to court. I want him to carry insurance on Amber as long as she is in school, and to pay for her college text books. I do not think that is being to unfair.
However that means that I have to take him back to court. Which means he will have to be served. Which means he could actually show up here for court.
I will need to be strong and have a lot of body guards. My ex has tried to hurt me, and has tried to kidnapped the children.
I will try to be strong and I will make it because I know that Rusty will be there to hold me up when I want to give up.
The girls will not be allowed to see their grandmother this summer. Since I do not know where my ex is and I cannot guarantee their safety, they will not be visiting my former mother in law. I will not take a chance of them not coming back or of him hurting them.
One thing I do know for sure is that all of the marines will be to pull body guard duty!